What would causes this wild sex behavior with my ex? My ex girl friend called me the other day and asked me to have sex with her for my upcoming birthday,except she wanted to include her lesbian with us. The two have already had a lesbian encounter before I met her years ago. My ex gets super aroused after drinking the previous day and was already horny.
I told her no, I did not feel comfortable with the arrangement in the first place,so she tells me to forget the whole idea. A day later out of nowhere she claims I begged her for sex, stated I do not turn her on anymore and she would not sleep with me ever again?!!
Did I miss something? This was her all idea from the start and the only reason she suggested to include her friend with me is to gain the most pleasure and to benefit only herself.
Can any reasonable and rational woman explain what the hell happened and what may caused this unforseen outburst? |
| She's just trying to make you feel bad for not doing it with the two of them, in hopes of making herself look less of a fool for asking you in the first place. |
Should I become a lesbian purely for sexual reasons? i just find the sex better, not relationships? I find both man and women attractive, but sex with a men just don't do it for me, it just don't feel as good as sex with a women, I had a few experiences with women and it drove me wild, it was the best sex i ever had. But i don't want to make a decision purely based on sex, what do you think? I don't find having a relationship with a women better then with a man, so im torn! |
your bi and you like female FWB's not a problem Friends with Benifits are good as long as your both understanding it is just sex
sean |
I am a "lesbian" - but I've been dreaming of having sex with a man.? Last night I had a very.. interesting dream. It involved me being in a large hotel like place, with a purpose but not understanding why anymore because I forgot most of the dream. - I ended up in this glass area, past all those stairs, and for some reason I met this guy and got very excited and we ended up naked- and started to have wild sex, I was extremely excited and desperate about it- and I think he was uncircumcised, and he ended up going flacid and rigid more than once. But I was so desperate that I made him keep going.
- To be upfront, I don't know what this means - but I'm pretty sure that I'm going to get a lot of " your not a lesbian " comments, so please do yourselves a favor and if it's not a genuine interest in wanting to help me figure this out- please take a hike.
- I'm actually looking for a real interpretation. If this interpretation does have to do with my sexuality, then so be it. All I want to know is what it means. |
Sexuality is something most people rarely fully let them self enjoy enough to have any idea what they want so don't be surprised if you feel a little lost at times.
Read as much as you can, take your time and trust your instincts. |
I need to know about lesbian sex..? i'm bi and have a girlfriend who loves me very much. but i've been having problems with her as she thinks her family will never accept our relation. by the way we're from a stupidly conservative country, so that's very possible that they do so.
anyway, afraid of losing her parents she's now closed every way of contact with me. but i feel all the time that spiritually she is with me. i know she's torturing herself by staying away from me.
she shows many causes for why she is doing this. like that she loves guys and she's not gonna have a guy with me. i suggest artificial insemination, she says no, she wants a naturally born baby. then i say if she could have sex with some friend for baby (she's bi too), because i myself don't want her have a baby by artificial insemination, i'm afraid such babies may be less lively or cheerful. that may sound funny, but yes there is more possibility to get twins or triplets in it what i don't want. that's because i want to have my own baby too. but i dream about her baby more than mine. anyway, when i suggest sex with some friend she says it might be hard to get pregnant with "just a friend". however, we're only 20 now and don't want babies in the next 10 years.
so then comes her next problem, how do we have sex? and that is my question to you. i've viewed in some porn sites that girls have sex with some equipment like penis, i think they can be inserted into both the girls' vagina at the same time. if you know about it, will you please tell me what it's called, where is it available, or is it subject to a doctor's prescription, or even if it's healthy at all. i am from Bangladesh and i think i'll not get it here, or even if i get that may be illegal. i've heard there are gay communities in the neighboring country, India. so please tell me if these things are available in India. it'll be easy for us to bring it from there, because we can't afford to go to Europe, USA or Australia - they are really far from here. also say if you know any alternate way of lesbian sex that is healthy.
please help me with anything you know. i need to ensure her that at least this problem can be solved. and i'll need to convince her parents too, their strange behavior suggests that she has told them about us. so pleaaase help us!!
(by the way, please don't ask us to test if we are sexually attached. we keep having wild fantasies and one night when we stayed together, in spite of both of us being very sick, it was damn too hard to stay apart) |
| Its called a double dong. You can find those on a website, and order it. That way you don't have to travel anywhere. She seems like she is going through the whole denial stage. If she really is that into you, she'll come back. Just give her some time. |
Do lesbian women only care about sex? Can there also be sacred love? In my culture love between women is forbidden it is even punished by death. In the realm of lesbian love is there any on line book or story or article having also literary value and artistic beauty? How is it possible that women are allowed to marry each other in the US. In my country it is a wild dream which is impossible to come true for me. Not now not ever. Perhaps I can find it in a good story. Thanks for writing to a woman in prison. Who knows? I may even be able to find a lesbian pen friend. This one is even beyond any of my wild dreams. Do lesbian women only care about sex? |
| I didn't think prisoners had access to the internet! |
What makes someone become gay/lesbian? I don't understand why someone would want to be in a sexual relationship with the same sex. Do animals in the wild live in gay/lesbian relationships? Are you born this way or do you decide this is the type of lifestyle you want to lead? |
| I believe I was born gay, and it's absolutely normal that you don't get why do we like to be with the same sex as I myself don't get it how people like to be with the opposite sex. And yes, some animals are gay, 1500 species practice homosexuality. |
Serious Question!!! Please Help!!!? This is very important. College age ladies: how many times a week do you get together with your girlfriends to share and compare your collections of adult toys? Is that something you do once a week? Twice a week? Does it always turn into a wild lesbian sex toy orgy or just sometimes? |
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we do it every week night. during the weekends too. actually, that's ALL we do. |
Help?!?!? Am I bi or what? I have never thought of haveing sex with a female but now...? I'm 18 and lately I have constantly been thinking about having sex with women! I watch lesbian porn and I can not stop thinking about what it would be like to do the things that they do in the videos. I have alway been attracted to males, fallen in love with them, and have had sexual fantasies about them, but this just came all of a sudden! I wouldn't want a relationship with one, but just have crazy wild sex with one. What's wrong with me? Am I bi or what? Thanks 4 the help! #confused |
| you might just be bi-curious,sweetie don't label yourself! (: be who you are,just if you like a girl like a girl if you like guy like a guy don't label. |
I asked my cousin to have sex with me (details inside)....? I am a lesbian, and me and my cousin are both 18. We have known each other since freshman year of high school, but didn't find out we were cousins till this summer after graduation. Now i had always had a crush on her during high school, and we got real close over the summer after we found out we were related. So just last night i texted her and asked her would she let me do sexual things with or to her, and she said hell no. I don't see why she freaked out, cause we aren't even that closely related.
You see, my great-great grandparents had 16 guys, and my grandma and my cousin grandpa are 1st cousins because their parents were 2 of those 16 guys. So that would make us like 4th or 5th cousins, which really isn't even that close. Was i wrong for doing this? She told me to lose her number, and i texted her and apologized like 5 times, and she is ignoring me now. What should i do?
also, she is straight with a boyfriend of 5 years, and i called him a p*ssy last night, and said he wasn't hitting those spots right. I mean, she act like i wanted a relationship. All i wanted was a night of hot wild sex in a hotel room. |
| It doesn't matter how close you are. You have family and it may not matter to you but sombdys feelings will get hurt. And you don't want your granparents or ur aunts or uncles to get hurt. Do you? I'm sure u can find another lolli to lick! |
Why are the terms "gay" and "lesbian" almost ALWAYS associated to sexual intercourse? But when we talk about "my boyfriend" or "my girlfriend" we tend to think of moviegoing or dating in a restaurant??
In a nutshell, why are homosexuals always thought of as wild sex junkies?
Aren't there virgin or non-sexually inclined homos? |
| Because people's minds are generally in the gutter. |