So, pretty much, the biggest thug on the street ends up getting the most gay sex in prison? What's the social psychology behind this? |
The social psychology behind this is the fact that these thugs tend to share the reason why they are in there with other inmates. For vengeance, or to prove to these thugs that they are not as tough as they are, other inmates rape them. Gang bang them, if you will. There is a famous case of Jeffrey Dahmer, who used to rape black males. When shared the reason of incarceration with the other inmates, and word was spread, he was murdered by a black male. He was a toughie, perhaps not a thug, but he is one of the most known serial killers.
Most thugs also are used to having sex often, and can't stand the idea of not getting any in jail, and resort to the extreme method of homosexual intercourse. |
My brother has HIV and he's gay.? I want to know what to do. This past week end, I've spent the weekend w/ my brother bc today (monday ) is his birthday and i wanted to celebrate his b-day early, due to me having to work and what not.......ne way, last night, i noticed that on my computer gay porn site(s) were visited....well the site itself didnt come off as gay, its something like thugs for sex dot com or somthing like that. ne way, my female cousin at my home and i thought she visited this site, i was going to confront her about visiting porn on my computer, until my brother stopped me, and confessed that it was him. he then confessed that he is Bi. or what ever. I talked w/ him for a little bit about this, but deep inside i was even more hurt. you see, when my brother first told me that he has HIV he said it was bc he was sexual w/ a woman he met online. and it was a painful experience, we both sort of cried. but now(last night) he told me the truth and he contracted HIV not from a woman, but frm a man that he no longer has contact w/.....ne way, i'm looking for advice. I don't know what to do. My little brother who I've helped for the past 20 something years, by being a big brother and role model, i just dont look at the same..... I mean last night, he was even having a convo w/ a guy on the phone, and i swear to God it was in the same way as a man who is interested in a woman would talk...... |
| It's just the initial shock at finding out his sexual orientation; he hasn't changed and he is still the brother you've always known. Give yourself some time to acclimate and you will lose that feeling of strangeness, esp since nothing really has changed other than now you know what his sexual preferences are. |
Why are gay black men almost always either homo thugs or queens? I only ask this because (in Philadelphia) I always seem to find/meet/see the really effeminate black guy with the large sunglasses and a swish. Or the homo thug thats on the "DL" and just wants sex.
I'm in the middle. And I've never met a black guy thats just in the middle. I maybe wrong, but it seems like once black men find out their gay they either queen out about it or go on the down low and start having all kinds of sex.
Are there any guys that are in the middle. That have their feminine side but at the same time could fix a car, throw a football, or doing something else butch without going "giiiiiirrrrllll!"
<end rant sorry> |
| You just think that most Black gay guys are queens or thugs because you NOTICE them. You aren't going to notice Black gay guys who look and act just like straight guys, are you? so it's a misperception. |
Why do white guys Fetishize Gay Latinos? My brothers are in gangs. I learned how to be urban because of them. Always get a faded haircut and listen to hip hop.(It's a stereotype i know.) But it seems like gay guys expect ALL Latinos to be thug, cholo types.
But this stereotypes you into being this "ghetto thug" only good for sex. Do other minorities get pigeonholed into a perceived stereotypes? I don't get it.
thanks |
Stereotypes are exactly that. When you learn to think for YOURSELF and stop listening to what others think of you, you will rise above the stereotype that you have been pigeonholed into. It's good to follow the GOOD WAYS and traditions of your race but when you know it's hurting you, why follow it?
In the end, the only things that matter are that you're doing the RIGHT things for yourself.
Sonya Sotomayor and Alberto Gonzales have already proven that Latinos are not a bunch of thugs, so why not follow them as role models? |
Is Gay marriage another example of America's prison culture finding it's way into mainstream America? If you are in the pen, and you are not a dangerous man, you may find yourself locked up with a husband, even if you were straight on the outside. The deal is, you get a violent criminal who wants to protect you, instead of beat you, he gets a sex partner. It is really miraculous how you can transform a thug into a nice guy by making believe his whatsis is a nipple & accepting a mild beating & rape once a week! In some maximum security pens, this is considered a marriage |
Do women actually get raped within marriage.... and then wake up the next day and prepare breakfast....
I dont know why a Gay man wudnt rather be footloose and fancyfree. Serious. Out of the pen. |
How do I ask my boyfriend if he's gay? My boyfriend is from Africa. He's very disapproving of homosexuals and gay culture. However, he has very feminine body gestures and talks softly, even during sex! I need help, I'm not used to this, I usually date thugs. |
| Are you gay? |
Why do people make gay relationships seem unreal? Why do people make gay relationships seem unreal?
Uh I always hear people (even some bisexuals) talk about how unreal it is for two guys to be in a romantic relationship. It's looked at as something that's not classified as a relationship. For example if a bisexual guy cheat on his boyfriend with a girl, people in general wouldn't think anything bad about it, because hes supposed to be sexually and romantically attracted with a female anyway. It gets on my nerves cuz there's alot of thug....masculine bisexual guys that think/say that same mess as heterosexual people ugh. Oh and I'm bisexual myself but not like "some" other bisexual guys that's all about the females and only freaks guys on the side, or freak their other bi male friends.
Shoots one bisexual guy told me that "he wouldn't date another guy (that's just too gay) but would just want to have sex with one" and said to me "u wanna sex buddies" uh hell 2 da naw and I wanted to slap the hell out of him...uh I just don't get it...alot of people say that I'm being guyish and stuff....but personally I just have a problem with a lot of other bi males and some striahgt guys because they see two guys being in a romantic relationship as too gay and unreal! |
| seems like u live in a community where there is alot of machismo. i hate those "macho" guys and say all that but go on the DL. they're just hypocrites. |
Is it weird for a straight woman to be turned on by gay men porn? I am a straight woman with a boyfriend, but occasionally I check out men having sex online. It turns me on more than guy on girl sex. I would never suggest to see it in person or ask my boyfriend to indulge in anything like that, but watching 2 men get it on turns me on a lot. Especially the ones where the guy is a "thug" or a guy that is "gay for pay" (the straight guys who do gay porn for X amount of money).
I'm also worried about my being turned on by it because I'm a Christian and I know porn is a sin. I know men having sex with each other is a sin so by my watching it and being turned on by it, I sometimes feel dirty or guilty afterwards...
Does anyone else have this problem? |
If straight men watch woman-on-woman action why can't you watch man-on-man action?
It's natural since straight women are attracted to MEN and straight men are attracted to WOMEN.
The only thing unnatural is your hypocrisy. You watch men having sex yet you condemn what they do. There's nothing wrong with two consensual guys having sex/making love or loving each other.
The Bible, in it's original form, does not condemn homosexuality if someone didn't already know that. It's quite the contrary, actually. I think you'll find the following links interesting (I know I do, but maybe that's because I study Biblical exegesis :-P)
www.wouldjesusdiscriminate.org/bi…
thewildreed.blogspot.com/2008/04/…
That's why, in my country (Sweden) - as well as in Norway, Iceland, Denmark and soon Finland - gays marry in churches by the Church and serve openly as priests, bishops, and archbishops; and discrimination is illegal. |
Is this what Chris Brown deserves? I think this should be his punishment for what happened to Rihanna:
He should be sent to jail for 4-24 months
No cleb treatment
Get put in an area where the guys will think he is pretty, and someone will have gay sex with him
Get moved into an area with big tough murdering thugs
Get beaten up by a big thug
Repeat
By the time he leave his fame will be over with no chance of return, unless it is a stupid reality show.
Sound like fair punishment? |
| i really liked chris brown's music and was a big fan but i cant believe his actions..he totally deserves these punishments. so what if he's a celebrity? he should be punished for what he has done.. |
Could my man be gay....?? So he was at a party a few years ago, a bunch of guys swore he said he f***ed some guy in the..u know what that he workds with. Well he always dated girls...i dated him. We had sex...still do after two years. He wants to be with me but I dont wanna relationship. A year ago I did see a text in is phone from a guy and it said whats good bay bay?( same guy he works with) Hes a thug so i didnt know if it was a thug thing or not. I dont think he is buuut ya never know. sometimes when we do it he doesnt last but 2 minutes. AHH. so confused. He always uses the words gay or fag ( which is wrong) but would he if he was honestly bi orsomething. |
| Why not ask him if he is gay or bi rather than asking yahoo? |