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What to do about an anal uncle? hes my moms littlest brother and he thinks that i should be doing the best in school and not have a social life but always focus on my career. im doing that and yet i still have fun. im not on very good terms with my mother so idk what to do about him. he has no room to talk when it comes to school. i am a 4.0 student and used to be a cheerleader but not anymore. he calls me everyday and i just tell him what i wanna hear. but idk how much longer i can take it. i want it to end but idk how. my dad doesnt like how he tries to be a father figure. any suggestions?? | | I would tell your Uncle that even though you appreciate his concern, you would appreciate him more if he didn't use "over-kill" with his concern, it is getting on your nerves, and will ultimately have the reverse effect if he doesn't back off. This may sound "rude" to some people, but I have found that going straight to the point is more effective than beating around the bush. Good luck whatever you decide. | Do you think she's pregnant or do i not have anything to worry about? 10 pts best answer? do you think she might be pregnant? me and my gf had unprotected anal sex on her period i didnt c*m inside her. then we had unprotected anal sex off her period and i didnt c*m in her then we had sex 3 times since then and none of the condoms broke. but her pelvic bone hurts and inside her vagina burns like a rash when i finger her. i used trojan condoms with spermicidal lube and astroglide lube could this cause the burning sensation? and she is a cheerleader so she takes a beating everyday that could explain the pain in the pelvic bone she said it feels like its bruised. she presents no other symtoms of pregnancy. do you think she could be pregnant or am i gonna be alright? | I do not think that your girl-friend is pregnant. She would not be showing symptoms already, but if you are worried wait 10-14 days from the time you had sex and take a home pregnancy test. Anal sex can not get you pregnant whether this is with or without a condom.
I have an allergy to spermicide and get the burning feeling that you are explaining your girl-friend has. Since most condoms have this, I would recommend that she gets on birth control if you guys plan on continuing to have sex.
As far as the hips hurting, I believe this is associated with the cheer leading. I was a cheerleader in high school and there were days that a new random part of my body hurt due to how our practice was that day. It sounds like you are being very cautious and I would not worry :) | What happens to the "popular cliques" after graduating hs..? ? this girl i use to be friends with were so close and when she finally realized that we were never really going to hang out she dumped me and moved on.. now she is varsity cheerleader (even tho she is a freshman) the only reason i never really hung out was because my anal mom never really let me and now that girl hangs out with all the popular guys like 24/7
do the less popular people become more successful in life?
better off than the popular?
im trying to convince my self that i wouldnt want to be in her shoes and i should be happy in mine..
thanks! | yes you should be happy in yours. i had a friend that moved to the popular guys too. she was my best friend for a LONG time and it hurt me to see her ignore me like that, but i moved on and found new friends that you know wont dump you like that. Listen to this though, use a label on other people, and you are labeled. Dont use labels and try not to let other labels bring you down. You are you and nobody is as awesome. It doesnt matter if you are at the bottom rung of the highschool popularity ladder, it just matters if you are being yourself, and if people dont like that BIG WHOOP, you never asked their opinion. In my school, i am at the bottom the WAY bottom, and i usually get bullied. and it has been that way since 1st grade. I am in 8th rite now, so i am only a grade lower than freshman. My gym teacher said her son was so picked on in highschool but after he made it out, college has been the best ever for him. So just be yourself, have you ever heard the saying, "If I am going to be like others, who is going to be like me?"
Another little saying for you: ;) Be careful who you pick on, they might end up being your boss one day!
| What happens to the "popular cliques" after graduating hs..? ? What happens to the "popular cliques" after graduating hs..? ?
this girl i use to be friends with were so close and when she finally realized that we were never really going to hang out she dumped me and moved on.. now she is varsity cheerleader (even tho she is a freshman) the only reason i never really hung out was because my anal mom never really let me and now that girl hangs out with all the popular guys like 24/7
do the less popular people become more successful in life?
better off than the popular?
im trying to convince my self that i wouldnt want to be in her shoes and i should be happy in mine..
thanks! | your life turns out to be what you want it to be.
Popular guys worry about what the rest of the school thinks about them.
They think everyone likes them, and find ways to look cool.
The reason why they fit in with there own preppy crowd, is because they have no personality and can't adapt to other people who are less like them.
They also think everyone cares about them, because everyone knows them. And they think everyone likes them.
So they can act superior towards everyone else.
The best advice I can give you, talk to everyone, don't act like anyone and be yourself. Also try to get along with your parents they are the only people you can really trust.
Your friends you made in hs, most of them you won't see after college.
Everyone thinks high school is your life, but it isn't. Its the start, take school seriously most ppl secretly do. | Could my boyfriend be gay? Ok so maybe im just paranoid but heres a list of signs ive been starting to focus on lately..
-We barely ever have sex anymore..(been dating 8 months)
-He hangs out with his one guy friend more than me
-He is a cheerleader..but he did play football in high school
-Does not like any other sports or watching any on tv
-Tweezes his eye brows
-Has been called a "metro-sexual"
-Favorite color is pink
-Wears girl earings
-Wears lip gloss...clear
-Shaves his arms
Ok so thats all I can think of right now...I dont know if he does some of these things with his appearance just to be different cause thats how he is but the more i think of it the more it freaks me out. He doesnt talk gay and the idea of anal sex freaks him out...am I worried for nothing?? | no way.
that's like saying "you're a dyke cuz you go to home depot"
be logical. just cuz he's not masculine doesn't mean he's gay. and not all gay guys act feminine. quit making generalizations and you will come to a conclusion much easier. | Again I ask: What is the diameter of the moon's penumbra during a solar eclipse? I asked this question yesterday and apparently it was misunderstood.
The UMBRA, the dark shadow of the moon during a solar eclipse, is conical in shape and tapers to a maximum of 167 miles wide when the shadow of the eclipse passes over the Earth's surface. When not in eclipse mode the UMBRA tapers to a point and ends.
The PENUMBRA, the subject of this question, according to diagrams I've seen is shaped like a cheerleader's megaphone getting wider as it's distance from the moon increases.
Basically my question is: How wide is the PENUMBRA at the point where the UMBRA ends at the point of the dunce cap shaped cone?
I understand the length of the UMBRA is governed by the moon's relation between apogee and perigee.
At apogee we get an anal eclipse which is just a glorified transition as astronomers observe a few time in a century with Mercury and Venus and I suppose we get the full 167 mile diameter when the moon is at perigee.
There is a point where the UMBRA ends. What is the diameter of the PENUMBRA at that point? | The penumbra is expanding at the same angle as the umbra is expanding. They are both the same size at the moon. So when the umbra has stunk from a diameter of 3462 km to zero, the penumbra has expanded from 3452 km to 6924 km.
And the word is "annular". | I dont like my sign, it doesnt fit me at all? My sun sign is Virgo, and everytime I read on here what people think of Virgos is always "quiet, anal, perfectionist, shy, reserved", it makes me very sad because Im not like that AT ALL! Im a cheerleader at my school Im on the tennis team I love the outdoors and im outgoing and I laugh a lot.
The only way Im like a Virgo is im organized.
The rest of my chart is:
Moon:Cancer
Rising: Libra
Venus: Leo
Mars: Libra
Jupiter: Libra
Pluto: Scorpio
Neptune: Capricorn
Saturn: Aquarius
Lilith: Aries
Does that change anything?? | Yeah, well the ONLY earth in your chart comes from your sun sign pretty much. You are probably sensitive, friendly, and fair. I am a leo, but I have A LOT of virgo influences in my chart, so I act more like an earth sign sometimes. But anyways. You really have to look at more than just your sun sign.
****Venus in Leo/Mars in Libra*****With Mars in Libra your energy in matters of achievement is more tempered than other signs. You're a lover, not a fighter. Since you are overly concerned with the other person and their needs with Mars in Libra, you can make an excellent, accommodating lover indeed. You must be assured that your partner is thrilled before you can enjoy yourself. At the same time however, you could suffer with some underlying anger and aggression if your own physical needs are being ignored. Although you won't come right out and say this, you expect your partner to know what to do to satisfy you since you go so out of the way to ensure their pleasure. Mars in Libra is concerned with energy balance and equality.
If the planet Venus is in the sign Leo in your horoscope then love is a grand, romantic adventure! In fact, you're an incurable romantic and with Venus in Leo you're likely to be in love with love. You need loads of attention and open displays of affection and anyone lucky enough to romance you will be doused with warm, generous gifts. Venus in Leo expects to be treated like royalty in love and sex, but you also know how to treat your romantic partner like the King or Queen of your castle in return. Venus in Leo has a tender ego and strong pride in love so you do need loads of validation and attention but you're free with compliments and have such a strong need to experience true love that once you find it, your loyalty knows no bounds.
Jupiter in Libra****With your Jupiter in Libra you tend to expand your understanding of life through the social realm, traveling or even studying with at least one other. You love to share your wisdom and understanding with others as well. You're idealistic, refined, friendly, and a lover of beauty and art. An unafflicted Jupiter in Libra indicates benefits through partnerships, marriage and business. If afflicted here, however, you may have legal and partnership problems. You'd do well in art, law, diplomacy, negotiation and mediation. | Caught masturbating by sister's friend? Okay here's the whole story
I was home alone, and ive decided to masturbate on my girlfriend's sexy striptease she sent me (dont trip i told her i would jerkoff to this and she said she doesnt care)
So i did, and GUESS WHAT, my sister's cheerleader friend caught me ejaculating, it was so awkward
Then a few days later, she comes to my house with my sister, then when my sister was taking a shower, she was on myspace, waiting for her, then she decided to go in my room. She said if ive ever done doggystyle, and i was like....ummm yea
im not gonnna write the whole convo but She said she hasnt done it and she wanted me to experience it with her
I tried to convince her that my penis is really small, but she said "haha not what ive seen when i caught you" and i didnt say anything
i told her, "sorry but no i have a gf"
She blackmails me and said if i dont do it with her, she will tell my sister and the whole family which will be very embarrassing
So what should i do?! Although she is really hot, im still loyal to my gf (been dating for 4 years)
What do i do? lose my gf? getting embarrased by family? anal **** my sistter's friend?
Is there any options?!
Please guys, any advice is greatly appreciated | | Dude your being tested dont fall for it. if you say yes you will end up not having sex with either the GF or her friend. I am sure she told her she caught you and they probably thought of this as a test for your loyality to your GF. | Prostitution for boys?? okay, umm...
this may sound personal and stuff.... but i'm just telling you this..
i have alot of friends, who play football for our schools... And knowing that i play too...
when we win games... us team members including the cheerleaders, went to the house of my friend who is also a football player...
anyways, we partied and had sex with the cheerleaders...
and it kept going on for months...
and knowing that my other closis friend albert, he had sex wit jenna, and now she's preggy...
so most of the guys r scared.... but some dont seem to care...
the other guys however are having sex wit other boys there age... x-cept they only do it to gay ppl... anyways.... alot of gay ppl at my skol are selling there bodies... or in this case selling for free....
i'm not doing it, cuz it sounds weird and disturbing...
but i am wondering what the feel is? And what are the consequence for "anal sex"??
the guys tease me cuz i aint doing it, so i wanna prove em wrong... | | Let me get this straight...they are teasing you because you aren't doing the whole gay thing? How about that for a funny twist of events...it's usually the other way around. Honey, if you are attracted to other men, then ok, fine, do what you feel you need to do. But if you are only doing this to "shut them up" or to avoid the constant teasing, don't. Be yourself. You can't change who you are or what sex you are attracted to. Take the high road and then at the ten year reunion, you can be the one doing the teasing. | Ok should i do it or just tell him to wait??? Ok so i am a teen i like this one guy and only one guy, so we've been talkin for about 6 months kinda and we are both male cheerleaders. so for about a week now i've been trying to get him to leave his girlfriend cuz she is a ho, and we have been talkin alot lately, and then i finally told him how in love i am with him and he didnt really seem to mind. but then two days ago he asked me on the phone if i was experinced and i said no not really, and then i texted him this morning and asked him why he said that and he told me it was because he was just wondering and then he started telling me how he had sex before with a guy and then he told me he wanted to have sex with me and stuff and we talked bout it all day today and he said he would go really slow for the anal part, i told him we could do it cause i really do love him, i really want to make him happy and i've always fantasized about it but idk for sure if i should do it, what do you think cause i really need help! | I'm worried about the girlfriend part for two reasons:
1. He should be honorable with her, even if she is not with him. Before getting physical with you, he needs to be "real" and break up with her first.
2. By "ho" do you really mean she gets with other guys? Then there is a potential for getting an STD from one of her sexual romps. I'd feel terrible if you got infected by anything because of something she gave your friend.
So I guess my thought is, be really careful for his honor and your health.
Besides that, if they break up, you have to know what being physical with you means to *him*. Is he just experimenting, and would like to try stuff with you to see what it feels like? Or does he really, truly like you?
I'm afraid that if you love him...but he doesn't love you back the same way...you could get really hurt. And you sound way too nice to get wounded in your good heart like that.
So you have to know that both of you are on the same page as to what sex would *mean* for both of you...so that neither of you gets hurt.
Okay.
But say that he is free, and you both are satisfied that you want the same thing. Either both of you are experimenting (no strings attached), or both of you truly care about each other and love each other.
Then, in that case, honestly, I'd start with just making out, perhaps being naked with each other if you're comfortable about that, and he seems safe to you, and you seem safe to him.
Maybe mutual jerking off or perhaps oral, if you really want that, after you are together a while and trust each other -- and if you share oral, *please* make sure that this is equal and that you both give *and* receive so that you both really enjoy it. (Yeah, talk about that ahead of time.)
But please, don't do anal right now.
First, make sure your friend is tested.
Then, make good and sure you both love each other, because you are just too good and too fine to lose your anal virginity unless it is with a guy who loves you passionately as you deserve. If he doesn't love you, I'm afraid you'll feel badly about it later.
Also, make sure this would be mutual and equal as well. IMO both of you should be willing to give *and* receive, at least until you both know each other and your preferences deeply.
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EDIT: Wow, I just noticed you are only 14. May I gently suggest that you hold off on anal until you are older, maybe 16 at least? Unless you are rock-solid sure that this guy is going to be with you for years to come. 'Cuz Baby, you are young! ;)
You sound like a romantic guy who is loving and caring. You should go really slowly with him -- if he is the right guy -- and just enjoy making out, kissing each other, snuggling. Maybe move on to j/o or oral when you get really comfortable and trusting with each other; but it's really not a race. Just ease into this and make really certain you are comfortable and happy with what you are doing every step of the way.
EDIT 2: Is your buddy your same age, or up to three years older than you? If so, then you are both okay, but since you are not yet 15, it would be illegal in Colorado for him to be sexual with you if he is four years or more older than you.
EDIT 3: Your profile lists you as str8. If you really believe you will end up with a wife someday, I'd actually advise against being sexy with another boy, so as not to confuse your mind, heart and body. But if you need to figure out whether you prefer girls or guys, or if you are pretty sure you are into guys and want to be with a nice guy in your future, then by all means make out with him if you are both on the same page, and enjoy it!
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If you should eventually decide you are ready for anal, then I love the response by
Alex H that I quote and give the link for below. And remember, for anal the one inserting should use a condom, plus *tons* of water-based lube like KY so no one gets hurt.
Do lots of foreplay first: rubbing outside, around and in your anal orifice with lots of lube so that you are good and ready. Then proceed according to Alex H's directions below.
Listen, you are a sweetheart. You deserve love, respect, integrity and devotion. Be with this guy *if* he shares those things with you. And if he does -- may you both be happy. |
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